Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Playground Speed Dating

Long before pseudo-married life, I dated people. Yes, I was young once. I usually ended up scaring the guy off because I was "too intense" or he "couldn't give me what I needed." That was code for "I'm not that attracted to you and you're too needy! Get a dog or go call your mother!"

During my dating days, I never had the chance to try speed dating. What I know of speed dating, and my knowledge is solely based on television sitcoms, is that you sit at a table with a person, talk to them for 60 seconds exactly, then a bell rings and you move on to the person at the next table. This process repeats at least 10 times. At the end of this rigmarole, you choose the person(s) that you like from the bunch.

It turns out that I've been involved in a similar activity to speed dating and I didn't even realize it: playground speed dating!

Here's how it works:

I'm on the playground. I meet a mom and we start talking:

ME: Your son is so cute! How old is he?
SHE: 20 months.
ME: Aw!
SHE: How old is your son?
ME: He'll be two in May. Where are you from?
HE: Long Island?
ME: Where in--- (I realize that Ari is no where in sight)

Speed date # 1 is finished. I'm running across the playground chasing after Ari. He stops to climb up the jungle gym.

Speed date #2: I meet another mom, this time attached to a little girl.

ME: She's so cute. Wow! She just said "Excuse me!"
SHE: Yeah, she's always been a talker.
ME: I just got my son to say "please."
SHE: Oh yeah. Which one is your little guy?
[I look but can't find Ari anywhere. Then I spot him!]

This process repeats itself indefinitely until we eventually leave the playground to go home. It occurs to me that this is why I have very few mom friends! I only get to talk with moms for 30 seconds intervals or less!
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17 comments:

  1. This is SO funny and true!!!! Lol great comparison!

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  2. YAY!!! Thanks! I thought so! It's just not fair!

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  3. That is SO how it works in playground land...lol.

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  4. This post CRACKED ME UP lmao I'm still chuckling. Good thing my family is used to my random outbursts of laughter ;)

    LOVE the comparison!

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  5. YAY! Thanks lady! I love random outbursts of laughter!

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  6. that is the funniest description of playground social life Also like the comparison to speed dating. Also love the pictures of Ari off into the distance, running happily, freely who knows where

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  7. I just had to check this post out when I saw the title linked from Amanda's blog. Thanks for lowdown! Now I have a better idea what to expect on the playground once my baby gets a little older.

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  8. It's true though! I never get a chance to talk to anyone because I am too busy chasing Ari!

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  9. Holly- It's so funny! My dad warned me that parents never actually focus on their conversations with another at the playground, but I never realized the extreme nature of this situation!

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  10. Oh this explains it perfectly! I haven't finished conversation in almost 2 yrs:)

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  11. HA HA HA! Okay, now I don't feel so badly!

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  12. Oh god, yes! This is why I always feel bad for my friends who don't have children and who come over for "a cup of coffee"... I know will never even touch my cup and they will never get to finish their story. I've became a master of short stories.

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  13. At least you get plenty of exercise?

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  14. that is so on the money, Lord. It's amazing. I thought i had no friends b/c I barely go out...

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  15. Exercise indeed! And yes, it is pretty funny!

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